{"id":3624,"date":"2021-12-14T08:35:36","date_gmt":"2021-12-14T00:35:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.andrewtee.com\/?p=3624"},"modified":"2021-12-15T17:30:59","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T09:30:59","slug":"happiness-is-easy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.andrewtee.com\/?p=3624","title":{"rendered":"Happiness is easy \u2013 \u5e78\u798f\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613"},"content":{"rendered":"<div  class=\"tatsu-SyZHywvrqY tatsu-section  tatsu-bg-overlay   tatsu-clearfix\" data-title=\"\"  data-headerscheme=\"background--dark\"><div class='tatsu-section-pad clearfix' data-padding='{\"d\":\"90px 0px 90px 0px\"}' data-padding-top='90px'><div class=\"tatsu-row-wrap  tatsu-wrap tatsu-row-one-col tatsu-row-has-one-cols tatsu-medium-gutter tatsu-reg-cols  tatsu-clearfix tatsu-B1eHJwvBcY\" ><div  class=\"tatsu-row \" ><div  class=\"tatsu-column  tatsu-bg-overlay tatsu-one-col tatsu-column-image-none tatsu-column-effect-none  tatsu-rkHkwvH9Y\"  data-parallax-speed=\"0\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tatsu-column-inner \" ><div class=\"tatsu-column-pad-wrap\"><div class=\"tatsu-column-pad\" ><div  class=\"tatsu-single-image tatsu-module tatsu-image-lazyload tatsu-external-image tatsu-BJEvOwrqK  \" ><div class=\"tatsu-single-image-inner \" style=\"\" ><div class = \"tatsu-single-image-padding-wrap\" style = \"\" ><\/div><img class = \"tatsu-gradient-border\" data-src = \"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.andrewtee.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Happiness_is_easy_KT5A9756DI.jpg?fit=1024%2C683&ssl=1\" alt =\" \"  src =\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAEAAAABCAQAAAC1HAwCAAAAC0lEQVR42mNkYAAAAAYAAjCB0C8AAAAASUVORK5CYII=\"  \/><\/div><style>.tatsu-BJEvOwrqK .tatsu-single-image-inner{border-style: solid;max-width: 100%;}.tatsu-BJEvOwrqK.tatsu-single-image{transform: translate3d(0px,0px, 0);}<\/style><\/div><div  class=\"tatsu-module tatsu-text-block-wrap tatsu-r1KJGdB9F  \"><div class=\"tatsu-text-inner tatsu-align-center  clearfix\" ><style>.tatsu-r1KJGdB9F.tatsu-text-block-wrap .tatsu-text-inner{width: 100%;text-align: left;}<\/style>\n<p>You may be wondering what this picture is trying to show.<br \/>This is actually a sand castle built by my niece.<br \/>As we initially only planned to have lunch at the beach, we didn&#8217;t bring the right tools.<br \/>She used her little hands, a small stick and a lot of imagination to build this sand castle.<br \/>Yes, it is not as grand or beautiful as many people would expect to see.<br \/>But for me, this is the most beautiful sand castle, and it also brings along a life lesson.<br \/>Often as adults, we educate the children centered on the expectations of others and the society. We often feel that we are right and they must learn from us.<br \/>However on the contrary, have we ever thought about what we can learn from them?<br \/>When we try to see things through the eyes of the children, their world is simple, pure, and full of imagination.<br \/>They will not be tied to the expectations of others like us the adults.<br \/>With the promotion of social media such as Instagram and Tiktok, more and more people are bound by trends set by a few people.<br \/>In order to meet the expectations of others and the society, people start to compete in endless pursuits. Some people even act dangerously in order to impress their followers.<br \/>It&#8217;s time to slow down, listen to your inner voice, and ask yourself: Will all this bring us real happiness? I don&#8217;t know about you, but my heart tells me they won&#8217;t.<br \/>Watching my niece playing on the beach reminds me of the innocent happy time when I was a kid.<br \/>In fact, happiness cannot be found in material possessions or from other people&#8217;s expectations. Happiness comes from the fun from doing something you enjoy, and it also comes from the company of the loved one.<br \/>It doesn&#8217;t matter whether it is the largest and most beautiful sand castle in the eyes of others. The important thing is to be able to do what we enjoy and with the people we value. That is simple joy.<br \/>We don&#8217;t need to find happiness, because they are all around us. 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